
Better read it fast before I remove some parts of this post.
If you're a long time reader of mine, you should know :
I used to blog at Wretch, a Taiwanese website.
It was pretty good, I used to get about 3000 views a day?
Jane joined Nuffnang about 6 months earlier than me.
She told me that I would be able to make money through blogging.
Then, I started going into blogging at daph-kisses.blogspot.com.
2years ago, I got a message on MSN from a faithful reader of mine.
I see their names on the comment section often enough for me to know them.
She's not just my reader, I would say,
a FRIEND.I've known her as Sayean and her sister Say Yie, good pretty girls.
So, Sayean's boyfriend used to work at this online company as a web designer.
His boss offered to sponsor my blog, as in
sponsoring my domain name.Let's call him boss A. A said he would insert whatever ads engine to make money.
By that time,
he WOULD give me a 30-40% of the money made.A promised me that I fully own my blog and I can ask for any help.
Ok, I was only 17, I was so stupid.What I really cared was my blog, not the money.*I'm so proud of myself, I'm a real blogger, I didn't care about the money, lol*I just agreed to it as A made Sayean's boyfriend to design my blog for me.
Sayean's boyfriend is really good at web design, he's professional.
You all know my significant
daphkisses KISS on the front page, he made it.
I never received a single cent in these 2 years.
I never asked, as I said I never cared about the money.
I've been baring with so many problems for 2 years.
1. A also sponsored domain name for other chicks.
Readers always told me, it directed to some other chicks' blog when they clicked on my blog.
That's like stealing my traffic, giving traffic to other chicks.
I asked him to fix it, he said he did but the problem was never fixed.
2.
I received up to 300 spams EVERY SINGLE DAY.It was so hard for me to manage, sometimes I accidentally deleted my readers' comments.
A's server is so lousy, I couldn't delete 500 by 500.
I had to delete 20 by 20 or 50 by 50, such a waste of time and energy.
That's why I always asked readers to appreciate a blogger's work.It's not as easy as it seems.
I asked A to fix it, he said he already DID but guess what?
I received more spams everyday.
3. The design of my blog is getting really dull.
2 years without changing the layout, HOW CAN?
*Sayean's boyfriend left the company months after the sponsorship*He left because boss A is BAD & EVIL.A did say I could change my blog design anytime, he would make his designer do it for me.
I went back to him few times (in 2 years) to get him to do it.
The excuse he gave me was he hasn't hired any web designer.Sometimes, he replied half way and he just ignored me.
4. Readers complained that they can't view my blog on mobile.
As we all know, iPhone doesn't support flash.
I wanted to change the design and the settings.
5. Ok, you don't help me, I get help myself.
I asked my web designer friend to have a look, see what we can do.
He said the whatever designing part is locked.
He couldn't get access to the whole thing.
6. I never felt like I fully own my blog.
I know that he can log in to my account.
I decided to really talk to A last few days.
He made it sound like I should do all these things myself.
WHILE HE'S SHAKING LEGS, sucking all benefits out of me.
I wasn't pissed, I talked nicely.
Since this is my thing, I would like to take it back.
You're not giving any help, what you did was paying USD20 for 2 years.
I said that I would pay him back.
"I gave you traffic for 2 years without asking anything from you""Your traffic doesn't matter to me, I just need the link under your blog"*That's not giving you traffic, then what's that?*
He placed 2 links on my blog.
1 on daphkisses.com
1 on daphkisses.com/blog
"I don't make money from your blog""Then, why do you need my blog?""I need your domain name for SEO, Google ranking"*I thought you said you only need it for the link under my blog?
He bragged about earning money from his website pasted on my blog last year.
Don't click on these websites, it benefits him.
Nothing on it, just some websites for you to click to get money from Google.
www.dinar2u.com
www.2bebe.com
"It's not about the money, it's the hard work I put on daphkisses.com"WTF??!!! What hard work did you put? You blog?
He said he has been trying to help me to get more views.
Sorry, not at all, my stat remains the same.
"Why do you need daphkisses.com for?""If you want to shift to Blogspot, just get a new address like daphkisses.blogspot.com"I don't want to curse, but seriously,
SON OF A BITCH.He doesn't know what he's talking about man.
Daphkisses.com is HALF OF MY LIFE, no, not half but
MY LIFE."We can work this out, I can fix your problems."Now he wants to fix? He always said that he can fix.
I thought of letting it go because I really loved daphkisses.com.
No man, what if he sells my blog in the future.
I don't want to "work" for such asshole,
FOR NOTHING.I want to drag him down with me.
"daphkisses.com is my baby"WTFFFFFFFFFFFF??!!! IT'S MY BABY.He just refused to give the domain name back to me.
Btw, give daphkisses.com back to me means giving me the registration details. So, I can point daphkisses.com to other site, my Blogspot (something like that)Ok, I wasn't rude to him, seriously, I don't fight, I don't and I didn't.
I didn't even say a single bad word to him, I stopped replying.
I went to my very smart housemates - Terence, Sarah and Simon.
Then, I got advices from my lawyer friend.
I WANTED TO SUE HIM.Smart ass me, like I can...
I can't.Sarah helped me to check, daphkisses.com is registered under his fking name.
I WAS SUCH A BLOCKHEAD, dumb as hell.
I didn't even know that I should have made him register under my name.
I don't dare to make it ugly.
I'm afraid of him using my daphkisses.com and do something stupid.
I can't do anything but leaving daphkisses.com2 years of hard work, building the name of DAPHKISSES.
People have known me as daphkisses and it's all vanished, finished.
I have to let daphkisses.com DIE now.So, this is why I pleased you all to not click on daphkisses.com anymore.
Help me to spread and relink
www.daphnecharice.comI'll see how is he going to make money from daphkisses.com
I talked to Sayean because I want to hire her boyfriend for my new blog design.
I told her almost everything, she told her boyfriend.
I know that they feel so bad for me but it has nothing to do with them.
Her boyfriend even called A up and asked him to give it back to me.
A refused to.
I can only blame myself.
I always trust people so easily.
I cleared everything on daphkisses.com
It's like killing my own baby.Look, I have it engraved on my MacBook.
Ok, yeh I know, I was so stupid to do that.


daphkisses.com had been.....
my life.I really want to curse you so so so badly.
Everyone asked me to use my blogger power to shoot him dead.
I'm so gracious, I didn't even reveal your name.
I believe KARMA will strike and bite you in the ass.Remove www.daphkisses.com and
FOLLOW/RELINK www.daphnecharice.comI saw my Facebook friends sharing on Facebook.
I'm grateful, thank you so much.
Thanks to Sayean and her boyfriend.
Thanks to my housemates, Terence, Germaine, Sarah and Simon.
I've been so down these few days, thanks ED for mentally supporting me.
Thanks to all of you who relinked and shared for me.
Thank you so much.
I was so upset, I had no appetite to eat.
Yeh, I think a lot, I need more time to get over it.
I made my blog public after updating the previous post at 9:48pm.
What cheered me up was this.
So much love and support from all of you.
Thank you so much ♥